I have 2 committed partners and have been poly for 3 years. Looking for occasional person for a fun date or to play with me or me+a partner. I'm a fun-loving, whimsical, intelligent guy. I spend my time doing home projects, attending arts events, hanging out at Edison House, and reading, preferably in the hot tub as much as possible. I enjoy bondage and BDSM but not all the time. I love to be someone’s safe, thoughtful introduction to it. Ropes, impact, body control, choking, needles, electrostim, and body control all turn me on, but I like dominating without toys and just by taking control. Semi-risky public play is great up to a point, but not overly far. I absolutely expect maturity and confidentiality.

My Ideal Person Smart businesswoman is my type: witty, kind, intelligent, emotionally mature.

I like a woman who enjoys being submissive in bed, but also drives play sometimes and doesn't expect a dom/sub dynamic all the time.

Experienced with poly/ENM is a plus.